Hey Bud, was really sad to read this and hear that such a dreadful thing has happened to you and your family.
Moments in life like this make us stop and think about life and its chances, remember the memories you created, and find the silver lining in it all.
There is always a silver lining when the clouds are dark.
Chin up,soldier on my man, here if you need a shoulder to lean on.
Kia Kaha (Stay strong)